21 Apr 2026

Yaourou collection of iconic covers

 

I am incredibly grateful to have graced the cover of 23 magazines.

Such an incredible journey!

In this post, I’ll be sharing my 10 favourites, alongside some beliefs and thoughts.





My intensity, sensitivity, memory are essential for creation & spiritual perception. My real value created from life experience come from within, as I am not discouraged by difficulty. Mother nature is a sacred energy for my peace & presence tell the true story.






I believe emotions are energy in motions and a gift meant to be felt and managed no suppressed. 
There is nothing wrong in feeling deeply. You should not push away sadness or joy, you should dance with them. No light can enter where no emotion lives. 






They can take my friends and my possessions but they will never be able to take my essence. My strength come from who I am not from what I have.





I believe that authenticity is not always profitable, but it is required for me to stay sane. If I have to package my identity and personality to become marketable, I will lose myself and be disconnected from the truth of who I am.





I am not defined by age, I am defined by what I carry. What I carry is light forged in shadows. My face and smile maybe says beginner but my soul says authority. I am well-preserved due to genetics and attitude. My ageless mindset keeps me young.




I believe that when you have been targeted, it is better to wait that you heal, so you can be strong enough, clear, and speak from power no pain. When you speak from a healed place, your words carry a different frequency, they are not laced with anger & bitterness, they are pure clear and sharp.





I am grateful for every door that close, every person who walked away and for every situation that did not go my way, because the frustration and pain was redirection and protection from what was never meant for me.




I believe that people with real power, authentic wisdom and genuine authority, should not need to control other to feel important, neither need to diminish others to feel elevated and nor need to possess others to feel valuable. The key to all power is within you.



I've realised I am a target because my energy is rare, authentic and healing. The intense effort and resources that a group put into trying to dim my light is a confession of what they lack. If I felt intimidating or envious of someone, I would either stay as far as I can from that person or I would choose to learn from that person.Their strategy, instead, is to engage in character assassination while appropriating my ideas; so silly, it's like trying to extinguish the flame you are using for warmth ! Seriously this has been going on for years, they have been going to extreme lengths in sabotaging my life. However, I am still alive & healthy, walking forward in beauty and faith. 




I believe in an abundant mindset where we share our expertise, built trust and growth rather than competing. We must know our true calling, either creator, healer, teacher... every role is valuable, the same way the head cannot function without the feet or hands.


I am changing how I connect online!

 I have stopped being active on Facebook since October 2025. 

I never had an Instagram account. 

I will mostly post on X (previously twitter) in tiny doses. 

https://x.com/VanityAfro

https://x.com/Iamyaourou

 

I'll continue sharing Brand stories, insights, and exclusivity through my monthly multilingual newsletter, "Getting Personal".  


Vanity Afro 21/04/2026

28 Sept 2024

Q&A with John Olaoluwa Modupe

 1. Please introduce yourself and tell us where you were born & currently live.

My name is John Olaoluwa Modupe.

I'm a Nigerian/Italian stand-up comedian, podcaster and actor.

I was born in Italy, and I currently live in the city of Parma.


2. What languages can you read, write and speak?

I speak Italian and English fluently.

I understand a little of Yoruba and still planning to improve that.


3. What inspired you to become a comedian?
The satire lingo is, I think, the major language I naturally spoke growing up. 

My Dad is one of funniest people I know, that definitely put me in that trajectory, and becoming a comedian seemed a natural transition of my self-expression.


4. How would you describe your comedy style?
I really don't know in all honesty; I love creating stories out of nothing and I love finding a connection between worlds that seem so far apart.


5. How did your show “The Glory & the Bush", a manual for bush people, originally come about?
I have no idea to be honest, I had a whole monologue written down a week to the show, but as soon as I landed I knew from within I had to scrap everything and write what my spirit asked me to, and so I did, let's see what comes out. 

But a key word of this show is Identity.




6. How does that make you feel performing in Europe for the first time? Are you excited, anxious a bit of both?

I'm a bit nervous but I've learnt to cope with it and appreciate it.

I've been lodging in a studio apartment in a terrifying area of London, so that really helped in redirecting any form of anxiety.


7. What goes through your mind just before you go on-stage?

I pray and thank God for another opportunity to give expression to the gift he has given me. 



8. What’s the most memorable show you’ve ever performed?

The first show, I was an opener to a big-time comedian in Italy.

It was the most memorable because that's when I realized I was born to do this.


9. Please tell us a joke

My life seems already a joke, please, next question!



10. If you could perform anywhere in the world, where would it be and why?
Nigeria; the reasons are innumerable, one of them is that I haven't gone back since I was 2 years.



Zita Obakponovwe & Yaourou Konaté Lehrmann attending the show at the Chelsea Theatre

Stay in touch with John





Vanity Afro, 28/09/2024

14 May 2024

Meet Fashionista Zita Obakponovwe, an inspiring single mum and founder of the luxury fashion company Zita Milano

 

Founded in 2016 by visionary Designer Zita Obakponovwe, Zita Milano has taken the fashion industry by storm with its unique approach to promoting mental well-being through high-end fashion.



Zita, a Nigerian born, Italian & British citizen, single parent to two children, prove that impossible is possible by building a world-renowned Brand Zita Milano through her own hard work, charismatic personality & strong drive.




Zita Milano is a luxury fashion brand pioneering label that seamlessly merges the world of fashion with the importance of mental health awareness.


Inspired by the belief that fashion has the power to empower and uplift individuals, Zita Milano seeks to break the stigma surrounding mental health by creating luxurious and stylish clothing that promotes self-expression and self-care. Each collection is thoughtfully designed to not only make a fashion statement but also to spread messages of positivism, resilience, and self-acceptance.



Zita Milano Brand has gained international recognition showing her collections in London Fashion Week and on the African continent in Gambia International Fashion Week.



Zita Milano haute couture garment worn by Miss Gambia.



In conclusion, Zita Milano is not just a Luxury Fashion Brand; it is a also celebration of strength, self-love and mental health advocacy.




Contact Zita Obakponovwe

https://zitamilano.co.uk

https://www.facebook.com/designzbyzita

https://www.instagram.com/zitamilano_designz

https://www.tiktok.com/@zitamilano

https://www.youtube.com/@Zitamilano007

 

Vanity Afro, 14/05/2024


11 Feb 2024

What is it like to have an African name outside Africa and a European name as an African

 


Yaourou I was born and raised in France and when I was younger, I wanted to have both a French first name and a traditional African first name. I thought it would have been sensible to have 2 first names, one from the country of my birth and one from the country of my heritage. Yaourou mean "spiritual healer".

Although growing up in France our household were run as a traditional Malian family, I did not care much for it, I was rebellious and insecure at the same time.
I grew up in Paris and in the suburbs but the majority of my friends were white so I was often self-conscious of saying my first name at first, because of bad jokes like being called yaourt au chocolat (chocolate yogurt in English) or mild bullying. My dad also gave me a nickname, YouYou. 

In the UK, London where I currently live, many are simply not able to pronounce Yaourou predominantly the "r" as it is not a soft r, it is a hard r. Most people called me YouYou, I love it, but any variation such as yoyo, loulou, annoys me, as it shouldn't be a huge challenge to say You twice. I equally love Yaourou as it's a unique traditional name that I associate with tales from griots and memories.


Salma Shama Ali is North Sudanese with African and Middle Eastern heritage.          Salma loves her first and middle name but would love if people could pronounce her first name properly. She grew up in Kent, England, in a predominantly white area and while in school no one could pronounce her first name Salma. 

Teachers would say to her “I’m going to call you by your middle name Shama as it’s easier to pronounce. Salma respect her middle name a lot as it was her great grandmother’s name who was from Syria but the now London based, would have preferred to be asked: "Would you prefer to be referred to as your first or middle name?”. So often when you are young and don't know how to express yourself about this, you just accept and move on, so Salma did, even though her feelings were hurt. 

First names can connect families just as much as last names can sometimes even more. They are often passed down through generation after generation. Other times, they are used to ensure a mother's maiden name lives on in some way.


    


Esmeralda comes from Equatorial Guinea, which was colonised by Spain at the time of colonisation. Her country is the only Spanish-speaking country in Africa, hence the origin of her name Esmeralda.
Her grandparents really liked precious stones and Esmeralda, Spanish for Emerald, was one of their favourite stone so they loved it as a name. 

Esmeralda, now London based, have always wanted to have an African name, she is learning to be more in connection with her culture and who she is.

She spoke about a memory when she was little and her father always called her "Bola" which means daughter in the Bubi dialect, the tribe where she comes from. Esmeralda likes Bola because it makes her feel alive and proud of her tribe.


Hervé was born in Mali of Malian parents descent but was adopted at birth by an unconventional white couple who traveled all over the world. His Malian birth mother was a fervent and active member of the Catholic Church, it was therefore important for her that Hervé had a catholic name.                       

Hervé is a French masculine given name of Breton origin, from the name of the 6th-century Breton Saint Hervé. Apparently, it means "eager for battle or strong and worthy “.

Now, London based Hervé also have an African name, Sékou. In the Malian language Sékou means, “He who has left.” Hervé was called Sékou until he was five. At five, Hervé and his white parents left Africa for France. It is then that Sékou decided to be called Hervé instead. The reason behind Hervé's choice was that he was scared that his new French classmates would mock his African name. He kept the name of Hervé since.


Lidiaana comes from Eritrea where it's common for people to have both a first name and a middle name. She goes by the name of Segen Lidia. Segen represents the graceful ostrich, symbolizing beauty, while Lidia is a biblical name that means 'Beautiful one' in Greek. 

Lidiaana lives in Germany and her name has been consistently mispronounced, she feels that it's often disrespectful.
She adores her name, but back in 2008, she made the decision to switch it up to Lidiaana. The reason behind this change was that her beloved grandmother passed away that year, and her name was Ana, which means 'Grace'.   
So, she thought it would be a beautiful tribute to combine their names and create Lidia Ana, which eventually transformed into Lidiaana. 

Lidiaana initially wanted a name that was more common to avoid any mispronunciations. Looking back, she now realises that she should have corrected people whenever they mispronounced her name.


      


Fabrice Essomba "My parents gave me a European first name because of the influence that France had over Cameroon" said Fabrice based in London.

Cameroon was a German colony until it falls to the French and British during World War I. 

“I’ve never felt like I needed an African name, I've never thought of that, maybe it is because I have an African surname" added Fabrice. Essomba means impressive personality.
Surnames are an important part of Cameroonian identity, representing one's family, community, and profession or social status.




Cheick Soumaré Cheick mean "Chief".
Soumaré is a surname of West African origin related to the Mandinka ethnic group. It is present in Mali, Senegal, Mauritania, Guinea, Gambia.   
        
The Soumaré ancestors were noble warriors and brave people. They present themselves as the first occupants of the Guidimakha region. The Guidimakha region is located in the South of Mauritania at the crossroads of Mali, Mauritania, and Senegal.

In the Western world Cheick, based in Caen, in Normandy, said that often people ask him the origin and the meaning of his name and how to pronounce it. His experience as a whole has been positive and he feels like people like his name.



Duc Doe "When you are born in our Togolese culture, automatically you have a first name linking you directly to the day of the week of your birth" said Duc, based in the county of Northamptonshire.

He was born on a Monday so his culture automatically gave him the first name Kodzo.
His Dad also gave him the name Duc as a middle name because of his fascination of the English royalty. He loved the Duke of Wellington, and his first name Duc is the French equivalent of Duke.

"I think my names are cool and elegant. I can relate to any male born on Monday in my homeland Togo. Also, Duc harmoniously and majestically sound lovely when accompanied by my surname Doe. 
I am Duc Doe in the foreign land. Kodzo Duc Doe in the land of my birth." said Duc.

What about you, how do you feel about your name?


                   Vanity Afro 11/02/2024

17 Nov 2023

Staying motivated during the cold and dark winter

Let’s beat the winter blues! 

Today, Nutritionist Kaysha Thomas and Personal Trainer Halicia Loren (Hallie) are inspiring us for mood boosting and wellbeing.


 Kaysha Thomas


What are some nutritious foods to keep you warm in cold weather?

Soups are a versatile option to keep warm in the winter months. By using a variety of vegetables, you get many different vitamins and minerals. By adding protein such as chicken, meat, fish, or lentils you also get a good source of protein. Soups are also great for hydration especially for those who struggle with their daily water intake. You can’t beat a nourishing bowl of soup to provide warmth and comfort in the winter months. 


Which three items are always in your fridge?

Three items I always have in my fridge are milk, a stir fry mix and eggs. I don’t always have a lot of time to cook and so having ingredients that allow me to make quick meals like porridge, prawn stir fry with rice or noodles or even eggs on toast means that I never get caught out. 

 

Please share one healthy protein smoothie’s recipe.

My favourite fruit smoothie recipe is blending plain yogurt, berries, a banana with a scoop of vanilla protein powder cinnamon and a tablespoon of oats. You’ll need to experiment with the measurements to suit your liking. My favourite green smoothie is celery, ginger, lime juice, cucumber and kale blended with water. Sounds so basic but the flavours are my favourite. 

 

Do you believe culturally appropriate nutrition care is essential for the Black community?

Culturally appropriate nutritional care is very important for the black community. Unfortunately, many have lost their connection to their cultural foods. Often because they have been told our foods are unhealthy. Rather than seeing foods as “healthy” and “unhealthy” it’s better to learn how to nourish yourself in a self-caring way. This includes eating a variety of foods that you enjoy including those yummy meals you grew up with. Many of our cultural foods offer a variety of different nutrients. Beyond that, food is also another way we connect to our culture and loved ones. Those who have medical conditions that require specialised diets, can still do this whilst eating your cultural foods. 

 

Is there a supplement every black person should be taking? Why?

A supplement that many black people are likely to need is vitamin D (ask your GP for a blood test to check first). Vitamin D is crucial for maintaining healthy bones, supporting the immune system, and playing a role in various other physiological processes. Whilst the melanin found in darker skin provides some protection against UV radiation, it also reduces the skin's ability to produce vitamin D in response to sunlight. Individuals with darker skin in regions with less sunlight or during limited sun exposure seasons may face a higher risk of vitamin D deficiency due to reduced synthesis.


 

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 Halicia Loren


1. What is your winter wellness practice? 

My Winter Wellness practice is to Rest, have Slow Movement and Connect. During the winter months, I like to rest more than ever making sure that I'm sleeping 7-8 hours a night. And if not, then incorporate a 1 hr nap midday whenever my schedule will allow. Naturally, I like to align with the natural seasons: Summer, Spring, Fall, and Winter. All the other seasons, I'm moving fast, and my lifestyle is pretty chaotic, so in the winter, I like to incorporate more opportunities to rest. In the past, I used to only rest as a "reward" for working hard, but now, in the winter months, I rest simply to show love to my body because it needs it to stay healthy naturally. 



I practice more "slow movements" in my exercises and do more low-impact workouts during this season to take time to strengthen my muscles, and core and focus more on my flexibility when stretching. And lastly, as a winter wellness practice, I make sure to "connect" with family and friends more during this time. I naturally put myself first to maintain and achieve my mental health balance. However, during the winter months, I like to make more weekly calls to family and friends to pour love and thankfulness back into them to show them I appreciate them. 

 


2. As a personal trainer, how do you keep your clients motivated for outdoor personal training sessions in the freezing weather? 

To keep my clients motivated for outdoor sessions, I like to remind them that NOTHING beats fresh air. Working out with fresh air will always make you feel better for any workout. And even if the cold makes you feel a bit comfortable, I like to remind them that these are great ways to practice mentally how they choose to respond to situations that they can't control and make them feel uncomfortable. If you can conquer an outside workout in the cold, then maybe those annoying work emails will feel like easier battles to take on. Getting used to not always complaining but pushing through and getting it done will always be a better mindset to have, especially when it comes to your mental health. 

 


3. Should women and men train differently or are they the same exercises? 

I think they can train the same as long as they are not expecting the same exact results. Women naturally have more body fat than men, and men can burn more calories doing cardio than women. I get couples all the time complaining that their husband/wife is getting better results than them even though they are doing the same workouts. So as long as you don't compare your results, you'll be happy. 




 4. Please give us a fun 20-minute winter exercise?

 


5. Do you have a mantra to live by that have helped you achieve better wellbeing, that you’d like to share?

 A mantra/motto that I tend to live by that has helped me achieve better well-being would probably be, " Life is not a race to be won; it's a journey to be experienced. And the journey isn't just about the process, but who you become within the process”. 

I think this mindset continues to remind me that I don't have to "Get ABS in days".. I don't have to "Get a Summer Bikini Body"...but instead, I can do what works well for my body and not pressure it to win or lose at something. Rather, that trying something out, such as a new workout or exercise, is something I get to have fun with and experience, whether it gives me a "perfect body" or not. Working out has allowed me to become someone who appreciates what my body can do, and as a fitness trainer, I have a passion to encourage and help others to love their bodies even more, no matter where they are in the journey of life. Our bodies weren't meant to be punished in workouts but instead embraced, challenged and loved. 





 

Vanity Afro 17/11/2023